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Lol today I shall be a civilized person and not scold.
I came across someone's blog post that was scolding me because I did not wave to my senior who ROD liao.
I won't say I'm correct but I'm not entirely wrong.
Ok debate has made my organization better.
Firstly, I am wrong in the aspect that I could have made eye contact with her, at least.
Secondly, however, to this person who wrote about me, you are not me, therefore you do not know how I feel and hence you are not in the position to make any comments.
Thirdly, I felt mistreated during her reign. Even though she is in the same situation as me, she discriminates against my height. (really...)
Fourth, she always picks on me and her style of talking is not only offensive but very insulting. Which there is no need for. At all.

I might have wronged her at the pick on me part because that is what i felt.
Even though I could have given her acknowledgement, which I tried before, I chose not to do so because the last few times i smiled at her, it's either she doesn't acknowledge it, or she just gives an insincere and cold smile. So why should I acknowledge when I know I would be given an insincere response?

I'm not trying to offend anyone or scold anyone cause I know this person I am referring to has character and will not be affected by this.
However, to the person who posted about me, I know you are referring to me and I admit that I did do that, but I do not find anything wrong.
You might say I am 忘恩负义, but really, put yourself in my shoes. If you were me you would do the same too. You can't feel me, therefore I do understand that you may misunderstand me in this aspect.
And I'm not doing this on purpose because I have a lot of love or what (which I myself am not clear on wether I do have it or not).

Its pretty clear in your blog post that you are referring to me, and anyone who reads it can tell.
But what I want to say is, you are not wrong for complaining about it, because she is your good friend and you are standing up for her.
However, put yourself in others' shoes, or rather, if you do not know much about anything between us, don't defame me on the Internet.

I know that I may receive the same treatment in the future, but that is inevitable. After all, it is not such a big deal. Humans are selfish creatures. To me, 只要心里知道就好.
Your values may be different from mine.
I know how to 将心比心, and I do understand how it feels.
But I do things according to my heart, rationally. And I don't want to be hypocritical or fake.

I just want to end off with my motto that can be useful for anyone, for you, for me, for them.
"要有道理，要理性。自己不喜欢做的事，自己觉得没道理的事，不要比别人去做，加强与人。站在别人的立场想想。若你如此强迫别人，那跟强迫你去做你不喜欢做的事的人有什么分别？你只会变成一个不真诚又自私的人。所以，不能说：因为我那么做或以前做过，所以你现在也要做。"

Anyways, I appreciate your advice an understand your thoughts. And I do know and appreciate what she has done for me. Just that due to other reasons I find it hard to explicitly acknowledge.
Thanks for the advice anyways:)

Good night!! ^.^